12/30/2000 -- OK, Quick
Question: Why the heck are people searching the word
"cheapgrrl" ? I'm just curious, because
I've been seeing a lot of hits from search engines
using the search words "cheapgrrl", "Nay",
"webcam" and would like to know why you're
searching those words in the first place? Did you
hear of "cheapgrrl" somewhere? Anyway,
click here and let me know. I want to find out:
- Why you looked up the
word cheapgrrl/nay
- If you normally go here
to get to her site
- Where you heard the word
cheapgrrl to look up in the first place
Anyway, have a nice visit..
and thanks for stopping by!
Written: November 8th, 2000
Warning: This commentary
contains inappropriate words or content matter that
may be offensive to some viewers.
On Tuesday night, while I was
bored outta my mind trying to find something to do
since Pimpwar
servers were down, I came across a pretty interesting
website. It's amazing how you get from one site and
then totally end up in some bizarre places. The first
site I ran across was one called CheapGrrl,
and I would not be surprised if you already know who
Im' talking about.
^--- That's CheapGrrl!
CheapGrrl, aka Nay or NayNay
is a 14 year old pretty blonde little girl with a
webcam, and a lot of spare time. She interested me
first of all because of her alias. That itself told
me a lot about her (from just a observer's point of
view). It made her seem to have the wrong idea about
self-image and sexuality. A name like that can do
one of two things--either make you appear low and
scummy (but that's too obvious), OR it can make you
look sarcastic and semi-confident. I'm sure deep down
inside she doesn't really think she's a cheap
girl.
She apparently models, has
a fun, busy life, and has time to spend chatting to
fans with using her webcam, and has a Yahoo! fanclub
that's 3700+ strong. I find that a great accomplishment
for a girl her age. Back when I was 14, I don't think
I would have been able to get that much attention.
Then again, webcams would not have been so fun at
9600 baud.
Since I haven't really had
time to see her in action, I can't comment on anything
but the impression I get from her site. I have respect
for her that she has made a name for herself, but
what I don't approve of is the semi-sexual vibes I
get from her. A girl like that will either grow out
of this "attention-seeking" phase, and end
up a beautiful, successful woman, or at worst, she
may just end up a casualty of the sex industry--that's
just judging from her taste in clothing, provocative
poses, and exhibitionist spirit. The good thing is
that she's got about 4 years to decide where she wants
to head in life, and if she could just look past her
hormones, she'll probably stay on the right track.
She looks like she has fun with what she does, but
I don't think she's old enough to see the whole picture
yet, and to see that there's more to life than having
a fanclub. Then again, who am I to say that? I'm not
special enough to have a fan club. (-_-)
Anyway, I hope this girl turns
out OK because it would be such a waste of a pretty
face if she ended up stripping or doing something
ridiculous when she turned 18. It's so scary how many
girls are willing to do porn these days...it's as
though the internet has made it become less shameful
to do pornography.
Overall, after checking out
Nay's site, I just had to wonder...where are these
girl's parents?
If you would like to read a
brutally honest review of CheapGrrl's
website, I would recommend checking out Daign.com.
He has some reviews for a few other webcam sites as
well, and he is quite honest and critical of them
all. He said a lot of things that I would have said,
but I'm not rude enough to say. Daign is amazingly
insightful and knowledgable about women (whether or
not you agree with me) and seems to know a lot about
their character, and what their image says about them.
He is also very much on the same wavelength as myself,
I could not agree with anyone more!
Tidbits for Nay:
(I know I don't know you Nay,
but I just wanted to pass down some words to you because
I know you've got potential)
- You're a beautiful, precious
girl.
- Stay confident, and only
demand the best for yourself.
- Have goals, and reach for
them.
- Adulthood is coming, and
soon you will start realizing what's important in
life, and what you wish you had done years ago.
- Don't do anything that you'll
regret.
- Respect yourself, and respect
your family. (Well, I'm sure you do anyway)